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Fortune Centre, 23 Bencoolen Street (Diagonally Opposite Sunshine Plaza)

It's my HAIRCUT day today, damn happy to be able to trim my hair!

Met Mr Dic Dic today, he went all the way to Haar Attic to find me even though the other guys decided not to meet up, what a friend sia! Will miss him when he goes Aust to study.

Ok my main topic is to introduce Basil Alcoves to you guys out there.
It's a small cafe situated just beside the road. Nice ambience except for the noise of the road.

The Menu - Appetizers, Main Dish, Sides, Deserts etc. I find out that the price of the pastas are reasonable, average ranged just below 10 bucks, except for one or two seafood pastas which I remembered correctly slightly above 10.

I ordered Shrimp + something, forgot the name. It was great, reasonable filling and surprisingly a huge number of prawns (about 11) and they are QQ and fresh. Damn nice.
Dickson ordered the main dish - Duck sumthing. Very nice presentation of the dish, equivalent to that of the italian restaurant, which explains the price of the main dishes, mostly 20 and above but there 16 - 18 bucks dishes. I tried some and it's nice, and goes well with the special ingredients mixed with vinegar. It's really worth the money.

Not forgetting the Shiitake Mushrooms we ordered for sides. Simply delicious. When I think we should visit the cafe more often, there is no reason why YOU GUYS out there won't want to try.

Jason signs off

Today, let's us discuss the topic on cliques. Will be a short one since I am a bit tired after a long day outside.

Part One.

Everyone starts off being a stranger in a whole group of people in a new environment though there may be chances of meeting familiar faces in the group but usually the chances are slim. There are several criterias in forming a clique. Let's start off with strangers and strangers, these people are what I referred to as 'Fresh', they are the ones who do not know anyone in the group nor have any friends within the group. Thus when the situation forces them to interacts, they have no choice but to spark off a conversation or people will automatically come to interact with you. If there are no such environment that forces the FRESH, they won't be bother to start a communication unless they are interested with a particular person whom attracts their attention.

The second group of people are people who have friends within the group, either they come together or coincidentally meets each other in the group. They are the most influential people in the group, the most potential to form cliques within the group. The bigger their known friends in the group, the more influential they are. They are what I called 'Ripe' , they are the ones who choose people to be in their clique and not people choose them. Most frequently, they are the voices in the big group if they are vocal enough because they are comfortable with known people around, thus not afraid of the new environment.

The third group are what I called 'Half Boiled', they are the ones who has friends within the group whom they did know BUT they are either school mates/hi-bye friends/lost contact friends/simply friends' friends. Normally, our intuition will tells us that unless we are forced to interact, they are the ones whom we will first look for. Otherwise, can avoid then will avoid. At least that's my mentality. Thus this group belongs to the 'either clique' or 'not clique at all'. Quite a sitting on the fence situation.

So when this stage where cliques are formed, will there be any more progression within the clique?

What do you think? Humans are a 'difficult to decipher' species, there are bound to be arguements, disagreements and fights within these cliques. Worst situation will be internal politics, which symbolises destruction of a clique. Prays hard, this will never happens.
I felt that clique within clique are generally bad in a way that it brews disharmony within your clique of friends, which may states that you are more comfortable with that certain group of friends but not the other half. Means in general, unless there are a major occasion where everyone needs to be present, most of your time, you will be going out with your clique that were formed within the clique. It's good in a way that they tends to be the ones who knows you the best, common interests thus having more valuable time together.
But have you ever thought of what will be the feelings of the other people in the clique? Of course it will be that of unbalanced when that clique started chit chattering about their small small outings.
I guess such situation can't be avoided as time goes by. Putting this in the context of marketing. When targeting a new market, you will have to survey (which is the 3 categories of people you belongs to) then you will know what course of action you will take to enter the market (forming clique). So as time goes by, more competitors come into the market (all getting to know better of one another), the market began saturated thus need to find niche areas to target on in the market itself (thus forming cliques within clique because you are more comfortable with that certain group of friends).

My stand on this topic will be that it's neither good nor bad, but I am more inclined towards the good side because being in a big group, if you are not loud enough or funny or interesting enough, you will become transparent in the group, just absorbing and taking in everything like a sponge. Difficult to merge in unless the topics are the ones that you are familiar with. BUT within a the clique that you formed within the bigger clique, contains people sharing your similar thoughts, interest and etc. easier to be yourself and get heard within a smaller group.
thus it's better... in my context... or maybe it's just me la... take my comments with a pinch of salt.


Jason stops here..

Oh my god... tomorrow will be the day that I playing gooseberry, I should have guessed from the start that I should have my leg put into their boat, haha what to do... will it feel weird tomorrow? Hopes not.

I have asked this question umpteen times throughout my 22 years in this mortal world, what is it like liking or loving someone? Will you think of her like every hour, every minutes or even every seconds? Won't it be too drastic? Or just want to see her every now and then? Will want to give her all the nice things and sweet talk beyond your imagination. I had been through these experiences, it can be sweet when you really fall for that person but deeply miserable when you are in the state of a 'just breakup situation'.

Whatever... who cares... wait till I am in those two states, then I will think of solutions to solve them. Which is normally the fact. But have you ever wondered, why you fall in love in the first place if you had to go through such an ordeal after breakup. I am not saying that DON'T fall in love but asking the 'WHYs' do people WANT to fall in love?

I can't possibly answer the question too, but what I can tell you is that all the things in the world have 2 sides - POSITIVE/ NEGATIVE. Same goes for relationships, it can be the sweetest and most memorable things in the world or in your entire life but when you fall, it can be the deepest of the deepest abyss of sadness and sorrows that you can ever imagined.

It's our own choice then. That's why there are monks and nuns in the world who do not want to be involved in the realm of love relationships.

Jason signs off

Quite appalled by the news that I cannot get up the flyer yesterday evening to watch the NDP fireworks because the person said I did not book in advance. The problem is that I did to enquire about the details on the ticket collection. They said I would be available for all slots for 09 Aug 2009... very disappointed about it... it make me feel that it's my fault rather than the flyer's call centre people's fault, it really sucks when it's a miscommunication at their side about the collection tickets. Haiz... in the end, we did not go up... sadded.

Jason signs off

I am quite lucky today to have called into the MOST most MOST popular slots of YES 933, the morning show 就是万人迷. At first, thought that there wasn't a chance since the 1st person already called in, but she can't sing the song... so I just picked up my phone and dial again, and was working on my computer, was in a state of shock when I look at my phone and realise that I got through.

So much so that I forgot the lyrics but luckily JIA HUI helped me, and got the flyer tickets on National Day, hope they will contact me soon to get the tickets. I LOVE Yes 933, the best gift ever since I never been up the flyer before.

Jason signs off

What is life in my perspective?



Something that encompasses majority of two elements - Happiness and Sadness.

It is either that you are happy or you are sad about life. I would categorise frustrations, vexed, anger and more under Sadness. What I can decribe sadness as is a general term to describe sadness, anger, frustrations and those associated with the negative thoughts. Happiness, do I even has the need to explain, I bet that most of you understand the meaning of being happy. Some may associate it with material needs, having fulfilled them makes them happy, others may simply states that "If all the people around me are happy, I will naturally be happy" a sort of influential and contagious feeling that one will get through this experience.

That I would most agreed upon.



Different people has their own definitions of happiness and sadness, it's depends on how you think, environment, friends and external factors which may alter your philosophy of happy and sad as you grow up. Your ideals may change for the better or even the worst, that is why people will suffered from depression when they were hit badly in the event of loss of child, family and the most significant the one they loved deeply.



You would ask this question frequently, how does some people be happy all the times? Take for example, I just finished watching a hong kong drama named 搜神传，there is one consistent ideal or rather quote which they conveyed throughout the whole show and I think that we should learn from the character in the drama even though she may be fictitious.



This is what she said, "Smile and good luck will naturally comes your way", simply means that stay happy, there aren't any obstacles or difficulties you cannot overcome, lady luck will naturally be on your side. Truthfully speaking, "do you believe in this kind of crap?", this will be the kind of statement when a pessimistic person will speak when he/she hears this statement, but it will be the opposite if it's an optimistic person.

It actually depends on that particular person whether to take such advice and external influences which may trigger the person to take up an advice. For example, this statement may be spoken from an important person in that person's life such as best buddy, father/mother or even teacher.

Will you heed such advice if someone was to tell you such statement? I believe majority won't, because they simply don't listen, but a handful will reflect and may take in the advice while one or two will be more than glad to follow what's the person says.

Life maybe full of ups and downs, what I think is that as long as you have one or two friends who will be there for you no matter what happens, you can consider to be one of the most luckiest person on earth, it's hard to find such friends. Be sure to cherish them.

I can proudly says I have, not one, not two but definitely more than three. Uncertainty, Unknown, Obstacles, and Difficulties maybe lying in the future ahead of us, BUT fear not, if there is a negative side of things, there will always be the good side, maybe this little belief can carry you at least that is what I believe in. No matter what, I can do it, I have been through and had braved through so why can't you?

Jason signs off

It has been a long time since my last entry.

As a person who treasured my past, I can't bear to close down this blog of mine which has been with me for almost 4 years. Starting a new chapter of my life with this old friend of mine.

Story Title - The life after National Service

What will be of my life after national service? It had been 2 years serving Singapore as an admin support assistant, though it's a mundane job but I had gained experience and new friends through these 2 years, and had lost some too. What I can say, it's a valuable experience and I will treasure it. Thanks to Ellen, SKC, Stallone and Rayson for all their support and guidance. Pardon me for my mistakes.

Now it's a whole new life standing ahead of me, unknown lingers ahead but I will brave it through. Just like the countless interviews that I had been too and finally landed on the E-Commerce Job at BASF the chemical company. Luckily, all my colleagues are so nice to me, even my direct superior haha. I felt that most of life have been a smooth sail and hope it will continue on too, wish that it will be for my 2 younger brothers too.

All my friends are also stepping into a new life of their own, envy those whom can enjoy uni campus life and hopes they can fare excellently in their studies amidst those fun and laughter. For those who is going into the work life like me, hope you can find a high paid stable job too and quickly embark on your university studies when you have enough money. For those who are currently studying, all the best la!

I believe that no matter how busy we will in future, we will still meet up sometimes to chill, and chat. Like the minds cafe outing, it's never be the same without Yuhong and the rest with your blurness, and forever so funny actions and laughters. EM by the River khakis, haahaa ya chilling out with you is really good, let's do it more often.

Jason signs off